Friday, 7 August 2015

7 Things You Need To Stop Doing If You Want To Be Successful



What are you ready to give up to reach success? Success means something different to everyone but one simple thing stays the same: it's not something that happens by accident. You have to work for it and work really hard. And sometimes in order to get something you need to give something up. So here are 10 things you need to stop doing to reach your success:

1.    Stop Searching For Perfection
 When you're trying to get ahead, expecting for perfection can be your worst enemy. People who seldom make mistakes seldom make discoveries. When you're perfect you don't take risks, you're not developing and you are not open to new ideas. You should remember that there is no such thing as perfect, so perfectionism may cost you way too much.

2.  Stop Saying Yes To Please Someone
 Most of the people like to please others. And it's okay, it's our nature. But sometimes people can easily take advantage of you. Sometimes, we say "yes" when we want to say "no". So stop being a push-over. Stop saying "yes" just because you don't want to offend someone. Just say, “I’m sorry. But I can't do this right now.” It's that simple.

3.  Stop Making Excuses
Stop blaming other people/nature/faith in your own mistakes and failures. Everything you do - is your choice. You are one responsible for your life and only you can make it better or worse. You need to understand that making excuses won't bring you any closer to your goals, so stop wasting your time doing it.

4.  Stop Ignoring Your Goals
 The truth is you won't reach your goals without making an effort. You can't succeed while sitting on your couch. First, you need to set your goals. Short-term and long-term. You can't expect that you will achieve all that you want if you do not know what is it you want.

5. Stop Fearing Failure

Whether you like it or not at some point you are going to fail. But, what is more important is what are you going to do next? Are you gonna give up? Or are you going to stand up and keep running until you'll reach your finish line? That what makes a difference. Making a mistake doesn't make you a failure. But giving up does.

6. Stop Comparing

The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. You should remember that every person has a unique situation. We all struggle our own demons and you never know what person had to do or to give up to reach his or her goals. So stop comparing yourself to others, it damages your self-esteem and is never productive.

7.  Stop Procrastinating

Delaying things that you need to do is just a huge waste of time. The more time you have for solving a problem - the more options of solving it are available. It starts with little things and fills your life with putting things off further and further. Do not let anything distract you from moving towards your dream.

Success requires focus and determination. If we didn’t have to work that hard to reach our success, we wouldn’t appreciate it. Remember, that the only person who can make you successful is you. As well as you are the only one standing on your way.


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